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Wendy Scott's avatar

When my partner and I went car shopping, I told the salesman that we were both looking for a new car and that we were both looking to spend $15K. My car was to be for short trips around the suburbs and my partners would be for long commutes.

When he realized that the only car my partner was interested in was 50% above his price range he said, "Here's an idea. Why don't we spend more on your (my partner's car) and less on the lady's car? After all, you need to be comfortable on your commute."

What he failed to take into account was that my partner and I have both been married before and we keep our money separate.

Let's just say I made my displeasure known (and recommended DEI training), while my partner fell about laughing.

But what about couples who have a joint account? How hard it must be for the partner in line for the crappy car to speak up for themself?

We didn't buy anything from that salesman, and we won't ever go back to that car yard either.

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Adam Ehrenworth's avatar

I keep thinking about how this can be applied to selling people on an idea/culture or a technology shift. Changing norms and shifting ideology can be even harder than selling a car :-)

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